Girlfriend left me...

Young Spartan · 08-04-2004

Well, in the past 48 hours I have not slept, ate and gone 30 minutes without a tear.

My first love and the girl who took my virginity left me yesterday.

Reasons:
Smothering her (calling/seeing her 24/7)
Using her as a slave (sex, food, getting me something, etc.)
Amplifying problems (blowing stuff out of proportion)
Hurting her purposely (Saying "I wonder if you care about me" or "Do you really love me?" just to hear her say yes, but at the cost of her feelings)

I really ****ed up. Yeah, a mod just cursed but I'm not in the mood for rules. I broke one, so kill me. Actually, kill me anyway, life is feeling useless. Everyone is telling me it will get better, but its hard as hell.

Yuneek

Stiker · 08-04-2004

I know how you feel. First girl i dated for 9 months. First love yes. Broke up with her because of peer presure. Got to love friends eh? It will get better ( not just saying that) because im still hear. I broke up with my first love over 5 years ago. Believe me it gets better.

Rson · 08-04-2004

hey man, i was in the same boat as you 2 years ago...the love of my life for 2 years left me and i though i would never get over it. i was also doing really bad in school at the time too so that didnt really help the situation. people kept telling me things would work out for the best and i didnt believe them. but trust me man, they do. i now have a wonderful girl for almost a year now. i still look back and yeah, i miss her, but i wouldnt change anything right now for the world.

chin up bud.

Milkdrop · 08-04-2004

well buy some ****ing porn so we dont have to deal with your personal life anymore,

Young Spartan · 08-05-2004

Mark your a geniune asshole. But I love it. :-P

Anyway, today she came over and I got her back kissing me, and a little of the naughty.... one the weight bench. Oops, did that come out? :-P Talk about personal life eh Mark.

Anyway, I think I'm going to win her back so it's all good.

Runecaster · 08-05-2004

Honestly I don't know why a woman would complain about a guy being too clinging. Most guys have issues with intimacy and are distant jerks.

Don't worry about it Alex, all will be well. Adolescence is a tough time and feelings are magnified because of hormones. Nothing you can do about that, so take it in stride. Break ups are never like the movies or books, every single one is different.

If you and she get back together, that's great

Young Spartan · 08-05-2004

EVERYONE says that they can't understand the smothering/clinging thing, even a bunch of girls.

Milkdrop · 08-05-2004

Quote:

Originally Posted by Yuneek

Mark your a geniune asshole. But I love it. :-P

I couldn't have put it better myself. Have a lollypop, and a free porn mag.

Well i hope you get her back, or some one who is much nicer.

Young Spartan · 08-05-2004

Thanks man, It's looking good for me and her to get back together.

Milkdrop · 08-06-2004

Are you saying thank you for the porn or the compliment?

Order · 08-06-2004

hmm.. good question.. both?!?

Milkdrop · 08-06-2004

well if i gave him both then it would be kinda like stealing.

Order · 08-07-2004

heh.. got another magazine.. ?!?

Young Spartan · 08-07-2004

Haha. Well, I wasn't speaking of porn as I find it demeaning to women and to set unrealistic sexual ideas. I think porn is very bad, and never use it myself - maybe that's because I've been getting enough for a while though, who knows.

Anyway, we got back together tonight when I went to the hospital for chess pains at 11:00 PM - I have severe namonia (spelling?) and have to refrain from physical activity - my moms was like "You know what that means, right Alex and Jess? No more closing the bedroom door till' he's better."

Haha,

Runecaster · 08-07-2004

Oh man how old are you?!??! Your mom LETS you have sex in her house while she is HOME>???

WTF?

My kids can be like any normal kids, they are gonna have to work for sex, i.e. find a secret place and do it quick, dammit!