[Lexiblue]

Yuneek, I can see that you are being pulled in a lot of directions at once and I know how overwhelming that can be. Order's advice is a solid one, however when in the middle of it, I know that doesn't always feel possible.

Just a few things to remember:

1. You can't climb the mountain as a whole, you can however climb it one step at a time. Looking at everything you want to do at once is overwhelming, break it down into manageable steps and start with the one that needs your attention most.

2. Delegate when possible. Ask for extensions/extra time on work timelines. You might be able to kill yourself to get it done, but then what is left..recoop time is not worth it. It is better to provide yourself with that little extra space/breathing room; you will get more done, the quality of work will be better and your sanity will be intact.

3. Get better birth control. You don't need the worry or a child. This is stress that can be easily avoided. Your relationship would be much better for it.

4. If multiple friends move in for a few weeks, all the better. They can help provide support for one another, and you can draw strength from them. (Support is not a one way street.) Ask them for help as well. It will get their mind off their problems and make them feel good that they can do something for you.

Lastly, I am really sorry to hear about your grandpa. The only thing you can do there, is express the feelings of love you have for him to him. You have been given a gift disguised in a dirty package (not pretty, but there it is just the same), you have a chance to tell him everything you have ever wanted to say. Most people don't get a chance to do this nor to say goodbye. Take this opportunity, and help your mom to do the same. You won't regret it.

Hang in there Yuneek. If you need support, you have it here.

Lexi